Trying to finish a manuscript can be a bit overwhelming, especially when we writers also want to dedicate our fulls selves to family, friends, self and, for those of you like me, to our full time non-writing related day jobs! This multi-tasking leads to a degree of identity crisis and can be a bit overwhelming!
Now, add to that the additional time needed to manage websites, check in on Facebook, manage a blog (I use these examples with the shame brought about by not tending to these items as closely as they probably require) and jot down those untimely little inspired idea gifts our brain splutters out at the most inopportune moments (all I have to say is when the bright people who create Dragon software design Naturally Thinking... sign me up!)... well, the seemingly insurmountable tasks can battle against us and cause the ever dreaded WRITER'S BLOCK!!!
So, my advice is this... Take a breath, take a break and walk away from pens and paper and electronics to give yourself time to celebrate what you've accomplished! There is nothing quite like reconnecting with the big world outside to awaken the muse and charge ahead! This is not just for writers! Everyone needs a moment to reset, reconnect and remember why we have the passions we have and why we do what we do. The fresh perspective you bring back when you return will make all the difference.
In an attempt to take my own advice I recently attended a social gathering for NH writers. Though I enjoy a good pot luck once in awhile, I was a bit apprehensive about going. The questions raced and panic set in...I don't know anyone...what will we talk about...what if...what if...what if...?? But, it was amazing. It was like finding a new little home full of folks who share my interests and passions and it provided the reset I needed. It was great to talk, to use my speaking voice, to learn about other people and the amazing things they do. Plus, I found being out in the world helps both fuse and diminish the identity crisis so that mother, wife, writer, office manager and all the other parts of me find their place to co-exist peacefully.
Why am I mentioning this? Perhaps to set an example, or be the first volunteer to try something new. Explore your world. Visit the website (link below!) of two of the new friends I met and dance through your kitchen with your family and/or friends as you make delicious food to share. Roast the perfect marshmallow and share it with someone who has never had the patience to do so and watch how happy they are when they eat it. Observe and interact. Your stories and your moments will be a bit better. Take your life and your days seriously and enjoy the folks you meet...face to face...out in this beautiful world!
Visit www.nofretcooking.com and enjoy amazing recipes and the original, delightful music to accompany you as you prepare!
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